Growing up I was always the skinny kid, the girl with the great metabolism. I wasn’t afraid of my appetite even if I knew someday it’d catch up to me … today was that day I was hit with a giant sack of reality. But I need to be honest with myself and admit that I had a self-diagnosed eating disorder during high school. It started freshman year and lasted sadly until I became pregnant with my son (end of senior year). I’m not proud of it in any way, shape, or form. It was unhealthy of me to just stop eating. I’d eat maybe something small at lunch, or something my Grandparents brought me over. After that it was easy for me to not eat just because I was old enough to make my own meals. All I had to tell my mother was I already ate or I wasn’t hungry at that moment and would eat later. Then I’d just ‘forget’ to eat. It went along with my cutting and just overall depression I can see that now. So I fully believe that’s why this realty of me being a “heavy” girl is hard for me to swallow.
Before I became pregnant with my son I was 5’3 and weighted in at 105 but sometimes 110lbs which would send me into a panic. When I became pregnant with my son I was one of those unfortunante people that had severe ‘morning’ sickness. I couldn’t keep anything down, no prenatal vitamins, not even stomache acid. It was the worst 3 months of my life I can tell you that. I honestly don’t know how I was able to give birth to a healthy 6lb baby boy. When I was finally able to see my doctor they had me weighted in at 90lbs … so I had lost close to 20lbs just from getting sick … weight I couldn’t afford to lose honestly. It didn’t help that after I was done getting sick I couldn’t keep down ANY dairy products. I had to take those chalky nasty calcium chews … which are yes GROSS. Just looking at my prom photo you can see how sickly I look … I don’t even really look pregnant here. I ended up weighting 125lbs when I delivered Owen and a couple days later was down to 120lbs. I was really happy to be here weight wise. I liked how I looked and didn’t want to be the unhealthy weight I was before. Then tragedy struck … I lost my (grand)mother to lung cancer.
This has probably been the worst 3 years of my life and I’m still trying to learn how to deal with her not being here, the empty hole that’s left in my body/life. It’s hard for me because I just feel so lost without her and I’m not sure how to pick myself up and carry on without her. She was always there to help me figure the tough stuff out and I know Jeff tries but it’s just not the same thing. So without even realizing it, I turned to food as a comfort. My appetite grew and so did my soda intake. It’s to the point now where I am now trying to not only deal with the grieving process 3 years later but also to adjust to being the heaviest I’ve ever been in my life. I’m weighting in at about 145-150 and I know on my 5’3 frame that it doesn’t carry well … believe me. I haven’t found a gym that I feel comfortable in (we’ve tried 2 of them) so I need to rely on what I resources I have available. I want to get in a habit of using the free workout videos that are on my OnDemand. I used the yoga one time … and felt really good but I can’t do it for one day and then a week later here we are without me doing the video. It doesn’t help myself any at all. I can’t see results if I don’t stick to something. Getting this out here, hell even putting the photo out there for everyone to see is my wake up call. I need to stick to something and do it now so that I can be happy with myself. I don’t want to go dramatic with it, just 10-20lbs and I’d be a happy woman. I need to do this for Owen and if we ever want to have more kids, I need to do it for that as well. I need to use this for my weight loss journal just to keep myself accountable for what I’m doing or not doing. If you notice I’m slacking, please don’t hesitate to yell at me on Twitter or Facebook or even in the comments.